Divorce is generally associated with pain, cost, anxiety, fury, abandonment, frustration, uncertainty, loss of control, loneliness, unhappiness — and many more negative emotions.
Unfortunately, however, divorce is sometimes inevitable.
Nevertheless, YOU do NOT need to be a VICTIM — YOU can CONTROL your destiny. Collaborative Divorce is the way.
If you have children, YOU and your SPOUSE will ALWAYS be the PARENTS of your CHILDREN — for their sake, choose Collaborative Divorce.
As you choose (or are forced) to go down the path of life without your spouse, choose to be fair; choose to be an adult; choose to minimize all those negative emotions that can make life hell for you and your family — choose Collaborative Divorce.
What is Collaborative Divorce? Collaborative Divorce is process that is intended to maximize control and minimize uncertainty; it is a process by which YOU control your destiny, with the help of an attorney (and other professionals, as needed) trained in collaborative law, by engaging in pre-litigation negotiation to settle your divorce-related issues – your financial issues; your child-related issues; and any other issues that are relevant to you and your life situation.
The object of the process is to negotiate a fair Marital Settlement Agreement, which will be the basis of your divorce settlement. Divorce is not easy; but it need not be hell. Divorce need not devastate your family’s finances — your divorce can be the best beginning for the rest of your life.
I want to help — that is why I got trained in collaborative law, and published this website. If you want my help, please call me to schedule an appointment — I can be reached at (908)232-6500; or Paul@Kostro.com
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